first, thank you everyone for commenting and sharing your thoughts and opinions. The general consensus is that he is/was sleeping around on me. And that sucks. I feel like a fool because of it. That man never wanted for anything. I was so good to him.
I always swore that cheating would be a deal breaker. You know the saying...once a cheater always a cheater.
But right now, I'm not so confident in that decision.
Maybe because I am feeling a bit lonely. well not a bit, ALOT lonely. I'm trying to keep myself busy. It's just easier that way.
Maybe I need to be single for awhile....as I posted before, I've always had someone, and depended on them for my happiness and satisfaction.
Question....if your sig. other cheated, would you make a break...no hesitations about it?
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hum, alex, that is a very difficult question, i think it would depend on what circumstances, why, what reasons, etc. knowing me it's very probable i would do a second chance, just a second one. but on the other hand, knowing my path too... i'm not sure being compassionate is a good choice... :'(
the big problem here, from my point of view is how to make it without losing authority, i mean he really must suffer a little bit, beg really hard, you know, because otherwise your selfesteem is underground
don't know if i explain well, you must keep yourself in the most valuable place.
kisses and big warming hug for you :')
Thanks Sophie, you are so sweet!
i once thought i could forgive but i found out quickly i cant. so this time around i told him from day one - there are two deal breakers: lying (because liars are cowards who are afraid to tell the truth) and cheating, because if he found someone else worthy enough to put our relationship on the line, he know longer deserves my attention. thats how i feel now, at this stage in my life. who knows how i will 5 years from now... i realize that my change from within is constant.
We all like to think we'd make a run for it if we we're cheated on when the reality is, our hearts are much bigger and mature than that. When you've invested so much into a relationship and you truly feel you have found your soul mate your heart has a way of reminding you of that and it's not so easy to let go. Sure, you'd be upset and lose a lot of trust but to completely call it off right away?
Love is a funny thing and can make you do weird things and have silly thoughts. But in the end, if you decide to abruptly call off the relationship because you're super-firm in your stance you'll suddenly find out that there is nothing funny anymore- in fact, the laughter turns into pain.
Hi Alex! Are you ok? Just dropping in to send good energy and wish everything goes better with you!
xx
where the hell are you????!!!
how was thanksgiving?
Alex, I don't know how everything has gone or how you are, but I want to wish you very beautiful Christmas days, I sincerely hope you feel better and are spending very nice and happy moments... my best wishes :-)
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